..horny.....?

"Hey, wake up!" Anto, startled, realized his classmate Ferdi was nudging him. "At recess, I
want to show you something!" Ferdi continued. "What? What is it? It better be good, startling
me like that?" ask Anto. But Ferdi wouldn't give details. "Mrs. Mar is watching us
...shhhh..."
When the bell rang, Anto and Ferdi made off to a corner of the school yard. Ferdi took out a
pack of cards from his pocket, split them, and gave one bunch to Anto. "Carefull, make sure
nobody sees them!" he cautioned. That made Anto curious. Anto start looking at each of the
cards... "Hey where'd you get this?" he asked Ferdi. his heart started beating faster. The
cards were fill of porn pictures.
When Anto got home from school, he went straight into his room and closed the door. He got
out the cards and started looking at the pictures. He didn't feel completely satisfied, as he
was lying on his beed staring at eachof the pictures. He was feeling more and more tense. He
checked again that his door was closed and locked. Anto sarted to take off his school
uniform, not being able to control the urges he felt. He feld tense...afraid...ashamed...he
felt his heart beating and the....
Eh, don't be shocked with this story, many people have similar experience. It's though if you
are feeling "horny". It makes us confused...doesn't it? Some people feel arrogrant, some have
inappropriate behavior, some fantasize, some just can't concentrate....
What is 'horny'?Feeling horny is the same as feeling sexual desire or sexual urges. Do you often feel horny?
That's normal. Especially for young people. People say that young blood bring wild swings,
including in love. Right question.
This is because as we enter adolescence, our sexual organ is maturing. This is related to the
influence of sex hormones. Boys are influenced by testosterone, and girls by estrogen and
progesterone.
Outwards signs are 'wet dream' for boys and 'menstruation' for girls. After that we are more
aware of sexual sensations we experience. Boys will get an erection if they are stimulated.
For girls, the hormones can cause an increase in sexual urges during ovulation or during her
fertile period. Boys and girls both have sexual desire of about the same strength. ANd in
fluctuates, sometimes we don't feel it much at all, and sometimes we feel horny.
The hormones which affect sexual desire also effect the nerves which control emotions. This
makes us sexually interested in other people, wanting to touch, kiss, hug, etc. This is aimed
at achieving sexual satisfaction. Behavior which is directed at achieving sexual satisfaction
or sexual enjoyment is called sexual behavior. Anto masturbating in the story, for instance.
He feels the sexual desire, and he choose masturbation in order to achieve sexual
satisfaction.