how to 'relax'?
You probably agree that urges need releasing. There are two basic choices. Let's see what they are:
1. Releasing urges into other activitiesi.e: No sexual behavior
We can also call this 'channeling'. Sexual desire is rerouted by doing other (non-sexual) activities. For example, doing things with friends, joining organizations, developing hobbies, or taking part in sports. Thus our time, energy, and concentration are taken up with these activities. This takes our mind away from our sexual urges. Or maybe for some, sleeping is the answer. As long as you really sleeping. Maybe you have your own way of redirecting your sexual energy. As long as it's positive, go for it.
2. Releasing urges through sexual behaviorReleasing urges through sexual behavior can be broken down further...a. Doing it aloneFor example, fantasizing or masturbationb. Doing it with someone elseFor example, holding hands, kissing, hugging, flirting, sexual intercourse, etc. These activities are done with a boyfriend/girlfriend, a friend, a sex worker, or others.
It's not easy though. Not everyone is okay with doing the things listed above.
So how we control our sexual desires?Be patient...if there is a problem then there is a solution right? We can manage our sexual desire. We know that sexual desire can be released or channeled in a number of different ways. We should also be aware each way has its risks. Positive and negative features. People look at the same sexual behavior in different ways.
ok, let's get into it!Behavior Positive Negative
Not released No feeling of sin Not 'cool' No risk of pregnancy Society approves
Holding hands Safe Bored No risk of pregnancy Not enjoyable Society approves
Kissing No risk of pregnancy Ashamed if people know Romantic Feeling of sin Enjoyable Can transmit disease
Petting Satisfaction Risk of pregnancy Small risk of pregnancy Have to be responsible More 'cool' Have to find place to do it Can get addicted to it
Sexual intercourse Can achieve climax Risk of pregnancy Many variation Virginity is lost Feeling of sin Risk of sexually transmitted diseases Can get addicted to it
Masturbation No risk of pregnancy Feeling of sin Satisfaction No risk of sexually transmitted diseases
This is description of the positives and negatives associated with various choices of ways to release sexual desire.
1. Releasing urges into other activitiesi.e: No sexual behavior
We can also call this 'channeling'. Sexual desire is rerouted by doing other (non-sexual) activities. For example, doing things with friends, joining organizations, developing hobbies, or taking part in sports. Thus our time, energy, and concentration are taken up with these activities. This takes our mind away from our sexual urges. Or maybe for some, sleeping is the answer. As long as you really sleeping. Maybe you have your own way of redirecting your sexual energy. As long as it's positive, go for it.
2. Releasing urges through sexual behaviorReleasing urges through sexual behavior can be broken down further...a. Doing it aloneFor example, fantasizing or masturbationb. Doing it with someone elseFor example, holding hands, kissing, hugging, flirting, sexual intercourse, etc. These activities are done with a boyfriend/girlfriend, a friend, a sex worker, or others.
It's not easy though. Not everyone is okay with doing the things listed above.
So how we control our sexual desires?Be patient...if there is a problem then there is a solution right? We can manage our sexual desire. We know that sexual desire can be released or channeled in a number of different ways. We should also be aware each way has its risks. Positive and negative features. People look at the same sexual behavior in different ways.
ok, let's get into it!Behavior Positive Negative
Not released No feeling of sin Not 'cool' No risk of pregnancy Society approves
Holding hands Safe Bored No risk of pregnancy Not enjoyable Society approves
Kissing No risk of pregnancy Ashamed if people know Romantic Feeling of sin Enjoyable Can transmit disease
Petting Satisfaction Risk of pregnancy Small risk of pregnancy Have to be responsible More 'cool' Have to find place to do it Can get addicted to it
Sexual intercourse Can achieve climax Risk of pregnancy Many variation Virginity is lost Feeling of sin Risk of sexually transmitted diseases Can get addicted to it
Masturbation No risk of pregnancy Feeling of sin Satisfaction No risk of sexually transmitted diseases
This is description of the positives and negatives associated with various choices of ways to release sexual desire.
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