But how to choose...?

But how to choose...?

1. Get as much information as you can about sexuality, from reliable sources. For example from teachers, experts in sexuality or from books. Not from porn magazines or porn movies. Much informaton from those types of sources is wrong.

2. Once you have enough information, decide what sort of behavior you want to choose. And be ready to accept these risks. If you are not ready, why force it?

3. Do you feel wrong doing it? Do you feel comfortable, do you enjoy it? For example with masturbation, if you are unsure about whether it fits in with your values, you can read books on the rules of your particular religion, or ask experts. So that we don't feel sinful we should avoid behavior which is in conflict with our values.

4. Think about how the community view things. We should consider the social risks if our behavior does not follow societal norms. We should consider if our sexual behavior has a negative effect on other people or on our surrounding, or will create a conflict of values inour environtment.

5. What if our parents know about our sexual behavior? We also need to consider our parents advice.

6. For those how already have a boyfriend or girlfriend, discuss your limits, and their limits, with them. So nobody will pushed into something.

That's it! Hope it was useful. After you have finished reading it, please tell your friends about this blog. Maybe you have a friend or relative who will need it.

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